Falling for it

Mike and I had the opportunity to visit Fallingwater this past weekend — an outing with Mike’s boss and wife. The timing was bad — so much work to do at my mom’s. But we had committed weeks ago, so off we went. I hadn’t been there in 20 years, and remember being so-so about it last time — those low ceilings? orange furniture? tiny bedrooms? It was okaaaay, but…

Twenty years of maturity and home ownership and design savvy later, I found it absolutely enchanting. As our guide said, “It’s a house you want to live in, but please refrain from living in it during the tour.” He was right. I had to restrain myself from plopping on the bed or the sofa to absorb the beauty of it. The drippy rain, the rushing water, the gorgeous hillside of blue forget-me-nots, the flowering trees. Those magnificent open corner windows, the built-ins everywhere, the charming bathrooms with their cork floors and walls, the boulder hearth — about as far from a McMansion as you could get, and thousands of times more desirable.

I remember very little about my last visit. This time, I wanted to hear everything the guide had to say, and asked a lot of questions myself. As a chatchke person, I loved the objets and art, noting a signed Picasso in the guest house. Genuine? I also admired the beauty of the new Visitor Center and the efficiency of the tours, with strategically placed umbrellas and really knowledgeable guides. Of course, being there with two architects, you get other insights as well. (For once, though, they found very little to be critical of.) 😉

The outing was for The Western Pennsylvania Conservancy annual members meeting, and included a lovely outdoor lunch, the Fallingwater tour, and hikes of the grounds if you wished. At the actual meeting, various Conservancy staff talked about their areas and showed slides of their work — very interesting, particularly the value of the 800 miles of creek fencing installed to keep cattle (and their bodily outputs) out of the water, the lands the Conservancy has acquired, and the urban beautification projects.

The “Barn” where the meeting was held (at Bear Run Nature Reserve) was really wonderful — a mix of natural and contemporary materials, including straw bale walls. Just walking from the Visitor Center to the house was a treat — nothing better than a walk along a wooded path, smelling the pines and seeing all the ferns and trillium and moss and quiet natural beauty.

Oh the joy of a relaxing and wonderful day — so very needed in the midst of my lately very complicated life and so inspirational. Maybe we can make that little cabin in the Smokies a reality someday (even though we’ll never be able to retire or afford long-term health care).

Oh well, reality is calling, but fantasy makes it so much easier to bear.

I believe in God, only I spell it Nature. 
                      ~ Frank Lloyd Wright, quoted, 14 August 1966

It’s May, it’s May, the LUSTY month of May…

Any other Camelot fans out there?

Geez, May 1 and only 3 posts in all of April. And, my blog didn’t even recognize me when I tried to write this post (writingbywho?). Just thinks of me as another slacker blogger-come-lately I guess. And the writing page looks different from the last time I wrote a post. Goodness, I hope blogging is still somewhat cool and not, like, so yesterday.

Oh, and now I must try to reconstruct these next paragraphs because I inadvertently deleted them somehow (because my template doesn’t work the same way either). Hmmm, I remember thanking my friends who checked in on me during my hiatus. It’s great to know you’re out there (of course you are, that’s the beauty of friends!). I remember writing about being lucky — busy, busy with work and busy, busy tending to my mom. Not so lucky in the contractor department, but as I typed this before, the sewer guys were here — YAY! The ones who are going to dig up my concrete basement floor and under my front porch and replace the sewer line — YAY! And the one plumber knows our retaining wall guy (who’s been stringing us along for months) and maybe can prompt him to start too — YAY!

It’s amazing what passes for joy in this old house.

But really, what IS truly wonderful? Spring bursting forth in all its glory. I can’t recall seeing a more beautiful year of blooming trees — our magnolia was spectacular, the lilacs a vision of, well, lilac, the neighbors’ dogwoods, redbuds, crabapples — just a vision. I’ve been relishing the drive to visit my mom (along the “easy” road, not the dreaded Parkway East for a while) and marveling at the beauty. And just today, more good news, mom has the OK to be “partial weight-bearing” so she can start to get around with a walker now. YAY, really.

So, I think I’m officially back in the blog swing. I’ll be on the lookout for inspiration, as if a sunny day and the promise of an end in sight to sewer worries weren’t enough. There must be a Maypole I can dance around somewhere.

If you’ve never been thrilled to the very edges of your soul
by a flower in spring bloom, maybe your soul has never been in bloom. 
                                                       ~ Audra Foveo

 

P….lease.

Much of my life is spent online. I often fill out forms requiring my name and address to register for something, buy something, get information about something, whatever. The forms are so handy — to save time, they usually let you choose from a list of states, and if you type the first letter, they’ll suggest the rest.

Since I live in Pennsylvania — the only state beginning with P — it should be a breeze. I type in P and get Pennsylvania. Except I don’t. I get Palau. Over and over again, every form it’s the same thing. P….alau. Trying to add an e…Pe…or trying to type the full name Pennsylvania to save having to take my hands off the keyboard to click and scroll with the mouse usually doesn’t get me anywhere. So then I have to click the field, scroll down to find Pennsylvania, and select it. Clearly an irritating chore in my busy, busy life. 😉 (Akin to the chore of trying to select United States as my country by typing U and getting Uganda instead — scads of Ugandans filling out Internet forms, are they?)

I didn’t even know where Palau was. Why was it coming up in a list of states? Was it a territory like Puerto Rico that I didn’t know about? And did this place engage in an inordinately high number of Web transactions?

So I decided to look it up. I had vague recollection of a Survivor season set in Palau (Palau being an island in the Pacific) and was right about that (yes, I know that’s sad). I also learned it was the scene of fierce fighting between the Americans and Japanese in WWII (we won, with a heavy toll in lives and still about 100 MIAs on the island). And that it’s a relatively new nation, having chosen to “freely associate” with the U.S. in 1994 under a Compact in which the U.S. defends Palau for 50 years, and Palauans are allowed to serve in the U.S. military. So, apparently THAT’S why it appears on the list of states — even though it’s not one, nor is it technically a territory.

But still, it comes first. Don’t get me wrong — as a writer, I revere alphabetical order. But that Palau should take precedence over Pennsylvania, the birthplace of the nation for goodness sake, is just plain wrong. (Also unimportant, but that’s beside the point in any blog rant.)

And so…one of life’s little mysteries explained; another of life’s little annoyances intact. Such is life.

Logic is one thing and commonsense another.
                                          ~ Elbert Hubbard

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