Come to think of it…

We all know the power of suggestion is, well, powerful.

Hear someone mention an itch and you start scratching.

Go on a diet and that junk food you normally ignore won’t leave your mind (oooohhhh, cheezy-whatsits….must have cheezy-whatsits….and dip!).

See them making Crockpot Italian Wedding Soup on a PBS pledge drive and here you are making meatballs for Crockpot Italian Wedding Soup at 8:00 at night, even though you’ve never made wedding soup before and don’t even order it in restaurants.

Give up coffee for Lent and the smell of Fat Tuesday’s grounds in the trash, normally gross, is suddenly irresistible. (Ash Wednesday down, 45 days to go.)

And yawns…contagious.

But why isn’t there a flip side? Why can’t the power of suggestion work for good, too?

As I was spending a couple hours this afternoon getting the new sewing machine up and running…(too bad no film at 11:00 — quite the sight. What the…? Why won’t the spool fit on the doohickey? Why is the doohickey so short? Are they making new spools these days? Should I have gotten different thread? Why is it wobbling like that? And look, it just flew off! What the…? Oh. The doohickey pulls up and gets longer. Now the spool fits. Never mind.)

Anyway, as I was frittering away what should have been a workday (had I had any work), I could have been — should have been — figuring out ways to get more business. I should have been e-mailing some clients to see if anything was in the works. I should have been updating my Web site — maybe actually writing some professional sort of blog. I should have been reading a book about marketing (if I had one) or about writing. Or even cleaning out e-mails and going through files.

That’s what my smart friend was doing. While I was joining Twitter (God knows why — I know only one other person on it), she was using her downtime to teach herself XML and HTML and actually enhancing her already considerable skills.

She was busy being productive, while I was busy being crafty.

But, I have to admit, the power of suggestion (or is it the power of guilt?) is powerful strong. I’m thinking I better get on the stick tomorrow. After all, I have a hefty tax bill to pay, regular quarterly taxes due at the same time,and a new craft habit to feed, not to mention feeding Mike, myself, and the catkids.

So. E-mails, Web site enhancement, professional development, office organization — that’s the plan for tomorrow. Unless, of course, someone out there has a better suggestion.

There is no allurement or enticement, actual or imaginary,
which a well-disciplined mind may not surmount.
The
wish to resist more than half accomplishes the object.
~ Charlotte Dacre

Confirmation! (Vindication?)

Who doesn’t love a good quiz?

I found this decorating quiz via another blog I hit on completely by chance — and it’s a fun one.

Take a minute and take it. (Go ahead, come back when you’re done.)

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How’d it work for you? Just as I suspected — I’m a little bit country and a little bit rock-n-roll (if by country you mean cottage and by rock-n-roll you mean arts & crafts).

Specifically:

40% Cottage Chic

40% Arts & Crafts

20% Mountain Lodge

Or, in a funny coincidence, as I wrote to my friend Kev last week, before even knowing a darn thing about this quiz…(and with apologies to Donnie & Marie):

I’m a little bit country, and I’m a little bit arts & crafts. I’m a little bit Martha and Morris*, with a little bit of Lloyd Wright in my soul. Don’t know if it’s good or bad, but I know I love it so. I’m a little bit cottage, and I’m a little bit arts & crafts.

No surprise our house is the “eclectic” decorating mix it is. (Don’t you love designer-speak — that’s “mishmash” to everyone else.)

It’s why we have a lodgey, rustic, handmade stool…

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Living next to some cottagey birdhouses and a basket full of primitive hearts…

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On the hearth of our very arts & crafts fireplace…

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So, if you just ignore our 1940s sort of Hepplewhite dining room and my traditionalish cherry office furniture and the contemporary (i.e., cheap) assemble-it-yourself entertainment center and assorted flea market and given-to-us pieces scattered throughout the house, it’s like we have a style! That we planned!

‘Know thyself?’ If I knew myself, I’d run away.
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

*William Morris

Again with the Country Home?

I know. I already posted my sadness at the demise of two of my favorite magazines practically back-to-back: Cottage Living and Country Home. But my last issue (the last issue) of Country Home just arrived and it made me even sadder.

country-home-april-20091It was thin as I fished it out of the mailbox, and I thought, “Well, they must not have been able to afford much.” But on the contrary, it’s one of the best issues I’ve ever seen — every story interesting and well photographed. Thin because it wasn’t full of ads — just story after story. It was great, and it’s a bummer not to have it to look forward to every month.

 A big paper wrapper over the cover announced my subscription would be filled by…Family Circle? Nothing against Family Circle but it’s not quite the same. My Cottage Living subscription, at least, is being filled by Southern Living, which is another wonderful magazine, so I’m OK with that, even though the garden stuff isn’t much help up here in Zone 5.

I was fortunate to be able to pick up the 3 2005 issues of Cottage Living I was missing on eBay — all 3 in a lot of 5. Plus I managed to resell the 2 I didn’t need. So now I have a nice collection of inspiration to pull out on a rainy day or a daydreamy day or a creative-wannabe day.

Along those lines, Mike and I saw a very basic sewing machine at Big Lots last Friday (reconditioned), and when we got a 20 percent off coupon at check-out good for yesterday only, I knew I would buy it. (I did a quick search of online reviews for that model, and many people said, “I was looking for a basic, first machine for my 8-year-old…” so I knew it would work for me.)

9318simplicityI took sewing in jr. high and high school, with hilarious results. I remember making a gaucho-jumpsuit contraption (picture it — not quite like this but similarly awful) that instead of fitting my size 5 or 7 teenage body fit my mother at about a size 12. Oh, and there was that yellow calico ruffled pillow from 7th grade sewing I used for quite a while in my room. That was OK.

What I’m thinking of is more along the lines of the pillow — we’ll see how it goes. Mike (encouragingly) said, “Oh good, now you’ll be able to make curtains and things…” Oh you poor misguided man. Having grown up with a mother who is an excellent seamstress, he has no idea of the skill required and that I haven’t a clue. (One look at the gaucho-jumpsuit and he’d understand.)

But still, there’s a creative, crafty soul inside me somewhere — why else would I be drawn to the things I’m drawn to? (Or else, there’s a 1950s housewife in there — I’ve always said I’d be perfectly happy in that role.) Even if the results are too embarrassing to reveal, at least I’ll have fun trying. That’s today’s plan anyway.

There is nothing in a caterpillar
that tells you it’s going to be a butterfly.
                                 ~ Buckminster Fuller

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