Finding hope in “America’s County”

Mike and I had the opportunity to attend a local chamber of commerce dinner last night — for Somerset County, where Mike’s from. His boss treated us, wanting to attend and even sponsor the event because the firm often does work in the county (largely because of Mike’s connections there).

Somerset calls itself “America’s County®,” a moniker that I think gained momentum after 9/11 (due to Flight 93 crashing in Shanksville) and the Quecreek mine rescue — two huge national (even global) events that shook this small-town/rural area in the Laurel Highlands. I’ve always chuckled at this lofty claim. And I still might. But as the evening wore on, it started to make a little more sense. 

The venue, at Hidden Valley ski resort, was jam-packed with 270 people — more than originally planned and still some had to be turned away. This demand for a $50 a person dinner was pretty great in itself — the whole county only has ±80,000 people. Business was brisk for the 50-50 raffle, Chinese auction, and silent auction, which had to have generated thousands more in revenue for the Chamber.
Bing! People enthusiastically supporting their town in the name of commerce and despite the current economic troubles.

To set the mood, we were treated to a (loud but neat) performance by a local fife and drum corps before dinner. Very revolutionary and — as I contemplated the Founding Fathers and their intentions in light of the recent election and my own dismay about the future — very timely.
Bing! Remembering how and why this country started.

Just as we were settling down to dinner, someone told us to please stand for the National Anthem (what?). The speaker went on to explain that in earlier days, many events, not just ballgames, started by singing the Star-Spangled Banner, and not just the first verse we’re familiar with, but all four (one of the four, he said, was pretty derogatory of the British and not always sung). He then proceeded to say he wouldn’t ask us to do that, but he’d do it himself, so he did. Three verses: 1, 2, and 4. I didn’t even know there were other verses. It was enlightening. (You can read the other verses here.)
Bing! Singing the National Anthem with pride.

Dinner itself was delicious and featured all locally grown or produced products. A really nice touch.
Bing! Supporting the local economy and businesses. Honoring the good things the County produces.

The keynote speaker was Somerset County’s own contribution to the U.S. Olympic team in Beijing, Sam Sacksen, a young man (only 22) who competed in the curious sport of Pentathlon, an odd mix of shooting, fencing, swimming, horseback riding, and running. As he told of the events that led him to take up the sport, be chosen for the team, and ultimately end up in Beijing, I couldn’t help but think that this was what the Olympics were supposed to be about — not professional athletes adding medals to their megamillion-dollar salaries, but hard-working amateurs giving everything they have to fulfill their dream. I’m sure I wasn’t the only one feeling proud and a little misty at his story.
Bing! Hometown boy makes good. His message: Not lamenting that it can’t be done, but figuring out how to do it.

His talk was followed by the presentation of Chamber awards recognizing people who had done much to promote the County in 2008. One award went to the group of politicians responsible for finally securing state funding to complete a crucial section of highway, Rt. 219, a project that has languished for many years. The effort was heralded for the herculean 11th-hour “bipartisan” push that made it possible — more timely talk, given all the rhetoric about reaching across the aisle and such.
Bing! Elected officials actually doing what they were elected to do.

Another award went to Pittsburgh-based development company Buncher Group, the relatively new owners of Hidden Valley, who just in their short year of ownership have already made many welcome improvements. Their representative seemed really humbled by the honor and promised their continued commitment to the effort and to the area — a great example of how “big business” isn’t necessarily evil and can really turn things around for an entire community (and make a healthy profit too).
Bing! Business as an essential contributor to society, not the enemy of it.

As I pictured this same event playing out in town after town across the U.S., I had hope that our country will endure…despite the economy, despite the current political leanings, despite the world’s evils. It was the first time I’ve felt hopeful in a while, and it was nice.

So what did that make…seven “bings”? Seven reasons why maybe it’s not so silly that Somerset calls itself “America’s County.” Maybe it’s not meant to mean the only county or even the best county. Maybe it’s more like “everycounty” — a larger version of the common everyman. Not perfect, not without its struggles, not even with the same struggles as its rural or suburban or urban counterparts. But still full of good people who care, who are working hard to succeed, who are proud of their country and support their community.

It’s a nice thought, no?

license20plate

One is a member of a country, a profession,
a civilization, a religion. One is not just a man. 
                              ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

On the road to Oil City, via perdition

A few months back, we bought a GPS device for the car — one of the lesser-known, cheaper brands — because I can get lost going around the block, am forever printing off online directions, and wouldn’t it be nice to have that sense of know-where-you’re-going security at your fingertips? My sister had just gotten one, and friends of Mike’s parents swear by theirs, so we were intrigued.

It took about 15 minutes for me to learn to dislike Thomas (the British “navatar” we selected) on our very first outing. We wanted to travel from a store in Latrobe to a restaurant in Mt. Pleasant. Forty minutes and myriad winding back roads in the dark later, I was over him, sexy accent and all.

Still over him on our trip to North Carolina, where he once had us exit a major highway, tour through the center of a small town, and get back on the same highway at the next exit. (Presumably to save 1/10th mile or something.)

We’ve played around with all possible settings on the thing (fastest, least miles, most economical) and still he leads us astray.

Yesterday was the worst yet: a simple trip to my brother’s in Oil City to watch the Steelers and spend the night. Instead of going the “usual way,” I had found a shortcut last time by looking at a map (of all things, an actual map) and tricking MapBlast or MapQuest into giving me directions for that route (they both want to go the usual way). My way was faster and more direct — 2 hours door to door, instead of the 2 hours, 10 or 15 minutes their way takes.

But do you think I could find those directions yesterday? We were already late leaving, and didn’t have time to figure out the faster route again. So we decided to “trust Thomas.”

After ignoring his attempts to get us to go the usual way, we thought we had him on the right track. We remembered part of the way, but not a couple tricky turns. (No matter which way you turn, he recalculates the route. In theory, you can never get lost.) When he had us leave a major highway to get on a smaller one, my inner “danger, danger Will Robinson” kicked in. Soon the roads got progressively smaller — 2-lane country roads, to 2-lane dirt roads, to 1-lane muddy messes where the next stop surely involved overalls and banjo playing. At one point we had to pull over to let a kid on a dirtbike pass us (with Mike snapping at me to put down the PA map I was pouring over “so we don’t look like idiots”). And of course, instead of my sturdy all-wheel-drive Subaru, we had Mike’s sporty low-to-the-ground Dodge — mud flaps scraping at every bump.

Maybe you have one of those relationships where driving challenges are met calmly and rationally, with hmmm’s and oh honey’s and cheery we’ll get there’s. Considering one of us thinks being on time is almost being late and the other has no sense of what “on time” means, this would not be our relationship.

Two tense hours later, blood presssures somewhere between pulsating-temple-vein and burst-a-jugular, we finally got onto a real road again — near Emlenton — nowhere close to Oil City. I insisted we give up on Thomas (harboring fantasies of what it would feel like to hurl him to the ground and stomp him under my heel), followed the signs to I-80, back-tracked 16 miles or so, and proceeded to go “the usual way.”

We arrived 1 hour later than on time.

Thomas survived the trip better than I — Mike still likes him for some reason I can’t figure out (the accent?). But I’m back to never getting in the car for an unfamiliar trip without first printing off “real” directions from two different sources (so I can compare). Cheerio, Thomas.

Trust, but verify.
                                       ~ Ronald Reagan’s policy toward
                    the Soviet Union

Perspective

In my last post on Wednesday, still in the throes of post-election blues (no pun intended), I wrote:

Life will go on. I’ll keep doing my job, fixing up my house, loving my husband, watching out for my mom, paying my mortgage and my taxes, playing with my cats, cheering the Steelers, thinking about Christmas, and all the other extraordinarily ordinary things I do — at least until something dire happens to change my ability to do all that.

Then yesterday, I thought I might have that “something dire” right in front of me (no pun intended). And I thought, “Now isn’t that frickin’ ironic.”

I was getting my annual mammogram. I’ve been getting these way longer than most women my age — like for the last 15 years — because of a family history of breast cancer. My doctor has always been cautious, and I always get an ultrasound and a mammogram. Always turns out fine — no big deal.

I knew something was up when the ultrasound technician kept focusing on one spot. After like 2 minutes, I hesitatingly said, “Do you see something you don’t like?”

She said it looked like a cyst, but since it wasn’t there before, she wanted to be sure to get a good picture. And the doctor might come in to check it out, so don’t be alarmed.

Yeah, right. (It didn’t escape me that I am exactly the same age as my mom when she was diagnosed.)

I sat back up on the table while she took the results to the doc. A bit later, she was back saying, “OK, no problem. The doc has no problem advancing you (to the mammogram). You can get your clothes and follow me.”

Big, gob-smacked WHEW!

Wait wait wait in a tiny little curtained cubicle (like a closet) before finally getting into the mammogram room with a different technician.

Two pictures each side, same as always. Wait for the doctor to read the slides.

Again, the tech comes back…”I just need to take another picture of the one side…”

Shit.

While waiting for the tech to come back again after the doc looked at the new slide, I had 2 thoughts, in this order:

  1. It’s not like I’d be losing something important like an arm or a leg. It’s just a breast. I don’t need it.
  2. How the heck are we going to pay the bills if I can’t work because I’m having chemo or something?

About then, the tech came back, told me all was fine, gave me the familiar yellow “We are pleased to inform you that your mammogram and sonogram show no signs of breast cancer.” letter for my files, and that was that.

I couldn’t get out of there fast enough. But as I was ripping off that silly paper top, I remembered to stop a second to say “Thank you, God” and say a prayer for all the women whose mammograms didn’t go so well that day.

Life really is all about perspective. (Thank you, again, God.)

We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.
                                                              ~ Anaïs Nin

« Older entries Newer entries »